Well thanks for all the suggestions guys. This has become a bittersweet thread for me and reading back on it brought back some pain. I was trying to make this fix on Saturday AM of Memorial Day. Later that day my dad died unexpectedly after a surgery and the doctors still don't know why, and pretty obviously, this repair--and my haying--went on hold.
I just got back from being with my family in Iowa celebrating his life and am getting back to this now. I like the idea of a rubber hose because the steel line would vibrate very bad and is probably what caused this.
There is a clamp for the steel lines, and if I push the line all the way down in the clamp, there's no leak at the fitting. The problem is that clamp doesn't hold the steel line anymore and it just pops back out. I suppose I could just put a hydraulic hose on there or try a new clamp, or do both. I"m sure the clamp will eventually fail and I'll be back to this issue. I like the cleaner look of a steel hose better, personally, but I need to get back in business quick.
--Another question: on a bend in one of the lines for the power steering cooler, there's a pinhole leak, must be a stress crack. This is a very slow leak, but the entire cooler would need replaced ($250). It vibrates a lot which is prob why this cracked in the first place. Is there a type of metal epoxy that could patch this up? I've wondered if plug of JB Weld there would do the trick.